Like this last chapter stated, "freedom of choice". We all posses the choice of free will. What you and your wife have is beautiful and that is a "family". No matter how the past was, the present and future is happening now. I commend you on achieving this accomplishment, yes, it's natural, but you did it! I don't have a family of my own yet, but I will have that in due time. I feel that, if you take all of what you have and didn't have, pull all of those emotions together in a positive manner, use it as ammunition to soar pass all beliefs, you and your family will prosper. Learning and growing with your mate is totally awesome. Even though you feel that both of y'all had 50% of parenting that y'all missed out on, you both will make up the
