Personal Narrative: Domestic Violence

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I have jaw damage, missing/replaceable teeth and now relocated to a domestic violence shelter for my safety. Domestic violence is something I’ve been exposed to all my life. For me, domestic violence is an umbrella term and I tend to veer away from it. I prefer to call it my journey to safety. And where; my abuser and I, have not been in a relationship for 5 years- tracking devices on my vehicle exposed me to such danger. It went from focusing on shelter, to a temporary restraining order, to a first and second protective order, physical harassment and stalking and now I am changing my name.
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In six years, from the police to the DA to the judge, he continuously slips through the holes of justice. I have learned the boundaries of love,

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