The perfectionist doesn’t see one mistake, they see a colossal failure, which makes it extremely difficult, if not impossible for them to bounce back after a defeat. How To Harness Perfectionism for Success The Link Between Perfectionism and Burnout- How To Fail At Work, School and Sports -Hill, an associate professor of sports psychology, said that the study showed the largest burnout rate was found in the workplace. The researchers theorized that with school and sports came defined goals and objectives likely coupled with strong social support and more attainable…
I remember my grade school teacher scolding me for being very perfectionist when I was a tyke. It was music class and I was grouped with a boy who clearly doesn’t have the “voice”. So before we could even have our first group, I already exclaimed that we won’t succeed because of this boy. I told my group members that he should just stick to the props and leave the singing to us.…
I am known for the "American System" and known as the "Great Compromiser," however I have accomplished and been through so much more than that. Born in 1777 in Hanover County, Virginia, I was exposed to American history since I was young. In 1797, I moved to Kentucky along with many others wanting to pursue careers in law and politics. My political career began in 1803 when I was elected to the Kentucky General Assembly then appointed to the U.S. Senate in 1806. I was Secretary of State under John Quincy Adams.…
When in the course of human events, it becomes necessary for one people to free themselves from the way they are perceived; they must create a new identity for themselves apart from how they are perceived by their peers. They must explain why they need to overcome these false perceptions in order to live their lives as they see fit. We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all people deserve to be free from judgement. We are often forced to live the way others perceive us.…
Ever since I was little I strived to become a gymnast. Unfortunately, we could afford the classes nor could we be able to go to practices because the destination was too far away. As if it were meant to be, that same day a flier came home with me for AIM Cheerleading. My mother glanced over it and she decided to enroll me.…
Everyone has a vision of what their perfect spouse would be, my vision is someone who is trustworthy, someone who has ambition, and lastly someone who is loving. First, the man I marry essentially needs to be trustworthy. Trust is a crucial element to every relationship and if I can’t trust him, the marriage will collapse. Also, I should not have any suspicions as if he’s lying about where and what he’s doing. Along with being trustworthy, he must be ambitious.…
Freshman Retreat I gazed around me at the full room. Sitting on the most uncomfortable hard cement surrounded by other freshmen and some seniors, we attentively waited to see what they were going to have us do that day. At the beginning I was nervous because a lot of people said that I would most likely cry and I didn’t know what they would have us do that would make us cry. The morning of September 17,2015 we met in the commons and loaded the buses.…
You're Trying too Hard to Fix Your Life: Just do This There are people spending years on self-help with no real progress in life (you are really starting to worry me). I was one of them, but since I was blogging about it, I tricked myself into thinking that it was okay, that I was the reasonable exception. In a way it was a waste of time because I wasn't making real progress in my own life.…
I stand alone, in my Perfection Complex. I had done it. I had seized SIVA for myself, but at what cost? To what end will my madness take me? Paledon is dead.…
Here I was once again at the beginning of a new school year. Just like previous years, I would lay awake all night because I was dreading to go back to school and when the time would be up for me to get ready I would be exhausted. Then the symptoms would start to kick in once I started thinking of going back to school from my summer vacation. There was something different about the beginning of this school year.…
I am a perfectionist. Ever since I was young, my parents have always pressured me to achieve the very best in life. My parents got divorced before I was born and they always told me that I could be anything I wanted as long as it was a better life than the one they had growing up. This has caused my childhood to be plagued with a desire to succeed in everything I do. I get irritated by the idea that I have achieved anything less than a B as a grade or the fact that I am even five minutes late to anything.…
Perfection For about a week I have tried to find the write words to explain to people what it is like to be a perfectionist. How would you describe it? Someone who strives to be perfect. Someone who everyone wants to be.…
When I was young, everything was consistent. I didn 't think of the future, and was content with the way things were. Everything changed that eventful afternoon when my mother told me that we were moving. I felt confused not knowing what the move entailed. Moving houses meant I had to go to a new school, something I’ve never done before.…
Within the underdeveloped, malleable psyche of every person, young and old, there still resides the unavoidable capacity for self doubt. Within my own mind, this capacity was overwhelming. Plunging into the real world of the public school system from the safety of my coddled, private school lifestyle left my self confidence in shambles. Grades were no longer handed out with attendance and my meager, yet stable, social standing had failed to accompany me on my journey to a new school. Day by day I trudged wearily down the halls in a seemingly permanent state of ennui.…
It looked blankly at me, then it had grew a big smirk. My face horrified, jaw dropping, eyes hanging, body trembling. This thing looked... Beautiful. Not a single problem could be seen on it’s face.…