Personal Narrative: Becoming A Foster Child

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Becoming a Foster Child

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It was in May of 2015 when my whole life turned around. My mother wouldn’t allow my father at our home so he wasn’t around a lot, my mother was dating a man named Jason. At first I thought Jason was good, I thought he would help my mom but it turns out he was just like all of my parents friends. They were all drug addicts. He is the one that turned my life around because he started selling illegal substances out of my home. Everyday after I came home from school I could smell the drugs and the stench would stick to my clothes when I left for school. I hated going home to my mother using drugs and her friends were always at the house, my mother and Jason didn’t have jobs thats part of the reason I was
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Our best friend Tristan Meyer and his family took us in and gave us our own room and space. St. Francis came to our house to talk to us and set up visits with our parents. We had to do a lot of work around the house to make is acceptable for us to live in. Our first visits would be one hour long and a St. Francis employee would be there to monitor us. Later on one of the friends of the the Meyers family donated and Xbox 360 to us with a bunch of games. The Meyers bought us a T.V. so we could play our games and watch videos and things. The youngest two of the Meyer family went into our room and would barely ever leave, they always trashed our room to where we couldn’t even open the door from the outside because they would block it. They took all of the games that came with the Xbox that was donated to us. In return we would not allow them into our room and it has been the same for about three months when i’m writing …show more content…
Our Father now has a girlfriend now who is also a recovering drug addict and they seem to be helping eachother out a lot. They both have jobs now and have a house, we go on walks and to restaurants that we haven’t had the money for in years. My mom on the other hand has started living with a drug addicts and happened to fail her last drug test. As of now she will still be on three hour visits. Soon my Father will start all day visits and a month after that overnight visits. We will most likely go to live with our father if our mother doesn’t correct her

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