He couldn’t find a job in Austin and told my brother and me that he would move to San Antonio. The dad that gave advice and guidance to my brother and me to succeed in school couldn’t guide himself on what to do. Living far from my dad felt like a knight without his sword and shield. From the exhausted look on his face, I could see that he was surrendering to search for a job in Austin. Living away from a parent never crossed my mind, but it was likely to occur.
The shift in lifestyle wasn’t pleasant, but by heeding my dad’s advice and establishing a work first mindset, I did school work and maintained good grades for my first semester of sophomore year in high school, while participating in extracurriculars and volunteering when I didn’t feel like doing it. I also maintained my inner circle of friends and studied for big