Personal Narrative: A True Southern Woman

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“Y’all come back again real soon” reached my ears as I jumped into the car to travel back to my home in Florida. For the last several days, my Aunt Sarah had hosted me in her charming South Carolina home. As the house grew smaller and smaller in my rearview mirror, I recollected her welcoming, generous spirit. Each morning, my aunt would awake before dusk to put together a delicious breakfast of egg casserole, cheese grits, country ham, homemade biscuits with lingonberry jam and a side of ambrosia. Later, each night she would escort me to my well-appointed bedroom, where I could snuggle into a soft, down-filled comforter on my lovely, antique bed. My Aunt Sarah epitomized the essence of Southern charm and hospitality. For me, a true Southern lady exemplifies sophistication, graciousness, and hospitality. …show more content…
Although many women attempt to replicate sophistication with snobbery and superiority, true sophistication has little to do with these coy attitudes. Dignity plays an important role in sophistication, as well. A Southern woman dresses herself tastefully, and puts herself together from head to toe, sending the message to others that she values herself. Additionally, a Southern woman takes pleasure in developing her talents and educating herself on important matters, displaying genuine refinement. Furthermore, she speaks eloquently with a rich, well-developed vocabulary. Although woman all over the world attempt sophistication, a true Southern lady embodies

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