Personal Narrative: A New American Language

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When my older brother was five, my mother hired a babysitter because she was returning to work. For him, it was a sudden change, as he was now living with a stranger whenever my mother left. She has been babysitting me, however, since I was born.
“Salam, ismeh man, Jamila.” “Salam, ismeh man, Dennis.” I responded in a broken Farsi accent. “Jayid jayid!” my babysitter said gleefully. I knew I wasn’t good at speaking Farsi, but I was learning step by step.
Jamila is a national Iranian who immigrated to the United States after the Islamic Revolution of 1979. She mostly spoke Farsi, the native language of Iran. Although she spoke little English with a heavy accent, she more than made up for it with her resolute desire to assimilate into this new American culture, showing interest in American soap operas and Judge Judy.
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For example, she insisted that I learned Farsi. It was unappealing at first, as I wasn’t skilled in the art of dialect, but I soon learned its importance, listening in on conversations between her and my brother or her friends. Over the years, Jamila and I have developed a relationship that has grown into something more than a babysitter and her charge; we were best friends.
As much as Jamila was a part of our family, we were also invited into hers. We celebrated weddings with her, ate traditional Iranian food at Iranian restaurants, and drank tea with her friends. Occasionally, a relative would arrive and we would discuss different news from her home.
Jamila has been around since the day I was born, and I know she’s left an impact that will last forever. She’s acted as a second mother to me when my own was working, and I’m grateful that she’s a part of my life. I had the benefit of learning a different language and culture, and we have had the opportunity to navigate the world

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