The vows were spoken, sweet and delightful. The moment where the registrar will ask, “does anyone not agree to this?” where both couples have to rethink their entire decision to get married, will someone speak up and save them or is it all over? I disagreed, I have no doubt that they don’t love each other it’s just well… Do you honestly want to spend the rest of your life with someone and feel obliged to stay with them even when you don’t feel the same spark anymore; when you can’t stand to be in their presence and it’s all in the name of religion or morals. I can’t say whether someone should or should not be together, that is not my place; but being against marriage – I could be biased.
Marital compatibility is essential to any relationship. If you plan on living with that person for the rest of your entire eternity then yes, please get to know them. Maybe not all at once but stages, “you learn something new every day.” You do not have to be with someone and feel obligated to put a piece of jewellery on their finger; that isn’t love, that isn’t what I believe is