With a car comes Responsibility. I knew that my parents were going to hold me accountable on how I manage my car in relation to school, work, and free time. I also knew that with a car comes independence. Receiving my first car is the first step to becoming an adult, and sooner or later I will find myself out of the house surviving on my own. From responsibilities, to gaining independence, leads to learning self-control. I had to learn the hard way that driving is not all fun and games. Driving is a very serious matter and having self-control is a major part. Responsibility, Webster defines responsibility as “A duty or task that you are required or expected to do.” Receiving my car I now had duties that were required of me. These duties included managing time, working, and keeping up with grades. When it came to managing time in the past, I was never on my own time. Anywhere I went, or wanted to do was always on someone else 's time, but not mine. Sometimes when I knew that I was going to hear the wrath of my parents for arriving late to …show more content…
I remember asking my mom or dad to drive me to the movies, and how annoyed they were having to drive me to a nine o 'clock showing that ended at eleven thirty. I recall telling my friends, or sometimes myself, “If I had a car they wouldn’t have to drive me around everywhere, I don’t understand why they won’t give me one. It’ll be easier on them.” Now that I have a car I do not depend on my parents to take me places at all. If I would like to wake up and go shopping on Saturday morning, there is no more waiting till mom or dad is done with what they are doing. I simply get my keys and drive to where I please. That is how independence works at hand now that I have a vehicle, and it all ties back to being responsible. I am responsible for being in the right places at the right time. When my parents were the ones to take me places they knew where I was because they were the ones that took me there. Now that I am independent it is up to me to do the right thing. Independence is just another step into adulthood. I am detached from the leach that kept me as a child bound to where my parents wanted me to go, or took me. My car symbolizes adulthood, I am independent and moving along the road into a future of my own. As I make my journey towards adulthood I know it will not be easy, but I will still have my parents to be there, just maybe