Personal Essay: My Mother And Mothers Changed My Life

Superior Essays
When I was growing up, I thought everything was going great. My mom and dad were together, loved each other, and my family was my life. When my little sister was born, she was my world and my older sister always took care of us. I would come home and see my mom and dad be happy together, but then my mom started to have problems and became a single mother raising five children. When mom would come home, she would hit us if we did anything wrong, so I learned to wear extra clothes.

My youngest sister started to get into drugs and I would even see her selling. Eventually, one of my brothers and one of my sisters moved to Mexico with their dad. It broke my heart when they left, because I was only a little boy wanting my family together. When
…show more content…
But we chose to come back to our mom because my sister cried every night for her. My dad was upset and sad about this, so he took us back to our mom. When we lived with her, the house got raided twice by police looking for drugs but didn’t find anything. My mom thought she was free from the police.

But it got really bad and I saw her getting into fights over drug deals. She even almost killed my little sister and I when she was on drugs chasing her boyfriend at high speeds in the desert and crashed head on into her boyfriend’s car. The pain I felt from the impact and the long walk from the Mojave desert was unforgettably scary. I’m lucky to be alive same with my sister.

Months later, the police took me and my siblings out of class and asked us questions about my mom. They said they had a home for us because our mom had gone to jail. We had one last visitation with our mother before she was taken away and I remember crying, not wanting to let her go. It broke my heart seeing her sent
…show more content…
I didn’t see my other sister for three years, which felt like eternity, but I finally found her on Myspace. We were able to start to hanging out, but I still missed my other big sisters who were always far away.

I ended up leaving foster care and I had my life dream on my mind -- the Marine Corps. I moved to Ventura County, joined a Fire Department program, got my high school diploma, earned 40 something college credits, and I quit drugs and drinking to improve my life.

My older sister eventually told me about Just In Time in 2015 and I’m so thankful for my mentor there, Marquelle. He has been such a great person to me and a huge help. Most of all, I respect that he is a Marine. I honor that and one day I want to earn the title of US Marine. I want to serve my country -- it’s my biggest passion in the world.

Thank you for the opportunity to be part of Just In Time and to be considered to do the Culinary Arts Program! I’m grateful for you letting me be part of your family while I plan my future. Thank you Don, Janet, James and especially my bud Marquelle. I want you guys to be proud of me! God bless you

Related Documents

  • Improved Essays

    Laura Aceves’ ex-boyfriend had a prior history of abusing her. She had been beaten with a baseball bat, dragged behind a car, strangled until she blacked out on the floor and was told how he would kill her if she ever left him. Two days prior to her death, her car broke down from what the mechanic identified as someone who poured bleach in her gas tank. He had been recently released on bail under court order to have no contact with Laura and also to check in with probation by phone each week. She dialed 911 for help and they were unable to find her ex-boyfriend Acuna-Sanchez.…

    • 851 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    The moment I had her everything changed and everyone fell absolutely in love with her. To this day I still say that Anna, Harvey, and his family are my saving grace. Without them I would not have been able to endure such a traumatic time in my life. As time passed my emancipation to my father was granted and I was able to continue living with my maternal grandmother. She was a godsend for me because she not only raised me into the woman I am, but also helped me raise my first daughter.…

    • 1266 Words
    • 6 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    My dad would get mad and start yelling at my mother when she dropped me off at his house. Along with his anger issues, I noticed he began drinking a lot more. This caused me to become more afraid of my dad because I felt that his drinking could cause him to act out in a violent manner. I thought I had my sister with me through it all up until one day. On this day I realized I was truly alone.…

    • 969 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    I had just laid down to go to sleep and all I heard was my mama screaming. I went downstairs and asked why was she crying but my dad had told me to go back upstairs. I went back up and called one of my cousins and she said that my uncle Erick killed himself in Vegas. Both of my mom’s brothers, my uncle Erick and Vic, lived in Vegas together. My uncle Vic said that he had gotten a call from my Uncle Erick’s girlfriend and she said that they had been arguing for over week and that Erick had just snapped out of nowhere.…

    • 1158 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    He didn’t stop until she passed out on the ground and the neighbors have to separate him from his wife before he deliver a killing blow. I was so horrified at this site that I ran home in tears and told my mom what happened at our neighbor 's house. She was not surprise and in shock like me, but she calming told me that this has been going on for years. I remember asking my mom “if she was getting beat like this, why in the world would she stay with this brute her husband?” My mom look at me for a second then she answered “if she don’t stay with him where else would she go?” I looked at her frighten an was about to open my mouth and ask her the next question, but she knew was I was going to ask so she stop me on my track and told me “NO” your dad is a hardworking man he doesn’t act like that. I became curious and want to know why domestic violence only happen to some family…

    • 1197 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    We stayed together until the end of the school year. I had found out that he was still messing with the girl that he broke up with me for a few months back. I remember being on the phone with him just crying one day and after he hung the phone up in my face, I put my head down on the table by the phone and began to cry even harder. My mom came in the room where I was at, and what she gave to me, I will never forget. She helped give me my power back.…

    • 1130 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Superior Essays

    She was left alone with her baby and could not handle his crying. So she decided to suffocate her child so she would not have to deal with him anymore. Soon after she called her husband asking him to come home which he did and he found his baby boy dead on their bed. He called the police and his wife was arrested. The doctors only thought she had the baby blues.…

    • 1056 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Superior Essays
  • Improved Essays

    This is a story about my life and it starts before I was even born, and it starts with my mother. My mom got pregnant at the age of 16 and she really struggled financially so we lived with my grandparents for a long time and I grew up with my aunts like they were my sisters. But before I was born my dad was very abusive to my mother and got caught up with a bad crowd. He started doing drugs and that 's when I believe he started being abusive but even though he was the way he was my mother tried her best to deal with his stupidity because she was young and in love and didn 't want me growing without a father. It came to the point that he hit my mom so hard that my heart stopped well I was in the whom and my mother rushed to the hospital with my…

    • 1337 Words
    • 6 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    My Childhood

    • 814 Words
    • 4 Pages

    In those 5 years I was the happiest little girl I could be. Had both parents & two older brothers to protect me and because I was the only girl I’d get whatever I wanted. One day my mom and I came to San Antonio, TX to visit my aunt, Angelica. In this very short trip my mom ended up meeting a new guy. When I had found out I didn't like it whatsoever because as a young girl I wanted both my parents to be together.…

    • 814 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    My father had a drinking problem and would physically abuse my mother and hit her for no reason even when she was pregnant of me he would hit her very badly that put her in a hospital and at 7 month I came along being a premature baby. My mom was terribly scared of my father and never even spoke up for herself that he was being abusive with her. Now I understand why she would stay up at night crying herself to sleep, staying at my aunt 's house noting wanting to come home to someone that beats her. I believe my mom went through hell when she was with my father nobody wants that life especially when having three kids and having to put them through this hard situation. Since I…

    • 735 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays

Related Topics