Being a critic for such a vulnerable community is difficult because ethically the critic has to separate himself or herself from being influenced by the misconceptions of the foster youth community that society has created. One misconception that society has for foster youth that are placed in relative foster homes is that they do not experience the same emotional turmoil as other foster youth that are placed in foster homes with non-relatives. By including quotes from the poems in the book about the conversation between the author and his parents on the topic of love, it is clear how complex and how impactful the opinions of biological parents have on their child regardless of him being raised by his uncle. Author Demontae Thompson is attempting…
Three (3) values that direct family-centered services. Application, implication, and characteristics of each value. “Values are important to the practice of human services because they are the criteria by which helpers and clients make choices” (Woodside and McClam, 2011, p. 164). One of the values that direct family-centered services is that family plays a vital role in children growth. In Nelson & Landsman Alternative models of family preservation: Family-based services in context (as cited by Ronnau, 2001), Nelson & Landsman (1992) presented that that the healthiest option for children is to remain with their relatives.…
A person’s development and outcome is directly associated with the type of influences they have in their lives. Whether they are good influences or bad, there is a strong correlation between the character of a person and the type of people by which they are influenced. Often family members, especially parents, act as the most influential factor in a person’s life. The influence of family members was one of the major themes in The Other Wes Moore. Both Wes’ were significantly influenced by at least one, if not more, close family member and the influence these people had on the Wes’ lives respectively shaped the people they ultimately became.…
On a fundamental level, Jon is unaccustomed to making his own choices, 3 especially if they result in leaving the institution and his given identity. He has no experience and the potential divergence from his packaged life that would result from leaving the facility is another source of doubt for Jon that Carolyn seems to, instead, welcome. Especially in an adolescent stage, education is tasked with providing valuable experiences, including the encounter with the ideal of free choice. As a result of Jon’s lack of exposure to that experience, his thoughts don’t dwell on the safety of his unborn child; they rest with the identity that the facility has created for him and his job.…
Comparing and Contrasting “A Boy Named Sue” and “Cat’s and the Cradle” Twenty-four million children in America live in a fatherless household. Studies have shown that family structure greatly impacts a child’s life. Children without fathers are more involved in crime, more likely to live in poverty, and struggle with behavioral problems. “A Boy Named Sue” by Johnny Cash, and “Cat’s in the Cradle” by Harry Chapin, are songs that focus on two boys with absent fathers. The songs portray how a missing father similarly affected the main characters, even though they lived very different lives.…
“The Glass Castle” Essay Sophia Pittman Forgiveness is the main idea of “The Glass Castle” by Jeannette Walls. Throughout her novel, Walls proves that even though her childhood was full of neglect, she still loves her parents unconditionally. Unconditional love is another theme that ties in with forgiveness throughout the story. Even though she desperately wants to get away from her parents and leave behind her catastrophic life, Walls still loves and forgives her parents. I can relate to her struggle of deciding which factor is more important in life: family and loyalty or self sufficiency and independence.…
The Bucket List (2007) focuses on the last months in the lives of two cancer patients brought together by fate and united to take a final journey. The two characters couldn’t be more different: Carter is married, has three children and grandchildren who surround him with their love and care. Although very bright and well-read, Carter had to give up his dream of becoming a history teacher when his wife got pregnant with their oldest son and took a job as a mechanic to support his growing family instead. In contrast, Edward is a successful businessman who actually owns the hospital where they both are patients. He was married and divorced four times and has a daughter who resents him.…
When an infant is being taken away his favourite toy he will start crying because he thinks it disappes for good as he can’t see it nor touch it anymore. Young infants are characterised by extreme egocentrism as they only see the world through the frame of their own senses, they are therefore not able to form mental representations (schema) of objects. Object permanence can be defined as the ability to understand that even if an object is no longer perceptible, it continues to exist. We can ask ourselves why is this phenomenon important to investigate? It is the step between objects only existing through on going sensory stimulation and the realisation of their existence being constant and not only dependant of the infant’s input upon it.…
Jeannette Wall’s memoir “The Glass Castle” written in 2005, talks about her unique childhood sharing memories of her father, mother and siblings. She retells her personal story growing up with irresponsible and neglectful parents. Mr. and Mrs. Walls left their children to fend for themselves for the basic needs, such as food and shelter. Even though Rose and Rex were unfit parents, I believe the children should remain in their parents care because through their experience and various lifestyles; they gained a lot of knowledge and intelligence that could be used later in life. If the Walls’ children were removed from their parents care and placed into foster care they could develop behavioral problems, attachment disorder, experience trauma…
The Other Wes Moore by Wes Moore is about two kids who grew up with the same name- Wes Moore. The author of this book was one of the two kids and he explains both his childhood and the other Wes Moores childhood. Both of these kids had similar child life experiences. They both grew up fatherless and had many of the same setbacks in life. Some of these setbacks may be with drugs, violence, and poverty.…
Ashley adored her mother Lorraine, which explains why she was so devastated when she was taken from her. She valued each gift her mother gave her throughout her childhood. Even after years of being in foster care, Ashley was sure that she would be reunited with her mother, so she refused to develop an attachment to any of her other caregivers. In fact, it took her a few years to tell her adoptive parents, Gay and Phil, that she loved them because her mother told her that she was her only real mom and that no one would love her the same. Ashley’s story is evidence how powerful an attachment made during infancy can be.…
The Intergenerational Sounds of Silence: Denial, Dysfunction, and Healing in David Small’s Stitches and My Life David Small’s Stitches is an acclaimed graphic memoir that reflects the intergenerational effects of denial, silence, and repression in a young boy’s life. The dysfunction of my own family goes back generations, and is inextricably linked to the ways in which my parents and their parents and their parents’ parents grew up: in a world rife with unchecked anger, manipulation and denial. As time has passed, however, Small and I have both discovered that the exposure of the candid truth, the courage to embrace it, and the choice to make change sets the impetus for healing. A pervasive family culture of silence and suppression based…
Throughout the Walsh text, several theories of social work practice are identified and explained. I will compare and contrast Family Emotional Systems Theory and Structural Family Theory. This paper will discuss the main concepts of each theory. How the theories would be utilized within different individuals and issues that may be presented as a social worker. The usefulness of each of the two theories in regards to social work practice, concentrating on a micro practice perspective.…
“A Child called it” first published in 1995, is a heart touching story about severe child abuse which happened in California. This book discusses the life of David Pelzer and his story about his abusive life. This novel gives insight into the horror of child abuse and the amazing need for survival. An idea that was portrayed throughout the novel was child entrapment.…
“The Blind Side” is a film depiction of the life of NFL left tackle, Michael Oher and his miraculous transition from being a homeless teen to becoming an NFL first round draft. The film follows the development of Michael as he is taken off the street by the Tuohy’s and with their support became involved with football. I chose this film because it portrays the social and behavioural development of a teen without a stable upbringing and how it affects his relationship and encounters with others. The movie does not only show the development aspect of one stage of adolescence but follows Michael’s character from childhood to his adult years. As well, the movie forms basis of comparison between Michael and the Tuohy children.…