The four selves are known as the open self, the blind self, the hidden self and the unknown self. The open self is what we know and what others know about us. An example of this is, I don’t like oranges and my friends know I don’t like oranges. This is the information you chose to share with others that you are aware exists. The blind self is things others know about you that you don’t. Your friends realize you are a stubborn loose cannon. You think you are perfectly calm and don’t understand what they are talking about. The hidden self is information you hide from others, that only you know. An example is that you are aware you have a peanut allergy, but you haven’t told your friends that. The unknown self is information that neither you or your friends know about you. I believe that the unknown self is something that exists. I believe this because of a little thing people call the subconscious. The subconscious contains thoughts of information that we don’t consciously know or are aware of. This is why I can see why there could be things neither we or others could …show more content…
Sarah was allergic to almonds. Casey would make sugar cookies with almonds for her friends. Sarah would never eat them and it made Casey sad. She finally told Casey she had an allergy. Casey understood and now on Wednesdays, she gave Sarah plain sugar cookies. The award for self-disclosure was getting cookies she could eat and Casey doesn’t feel bad anymore. Tamara has a crush on Tom. She works up the courage to tell him this. Tom returns her affections and they start dating. The reward for self-disclosure is that she ended dating Tom. Cora is a school teacher. She posts pictures of herself drinking and partying on Facebook. The administrative sees the pictures and fires her. Self-disclosure was punished by Cora losing her job. Tammy reveals to her boyfriend that she is cheating on Tim. The couple cannot work through the issue and breaks up. Self-disclosure was punished by the loss of Tammy’s relationship.
5. The four processes are self-fulfilling prophecy, primary-recency, stereotyping, and attribution of control. Self-fulfilling prophecy is where through one’s actions and thoughts something can come true. Primary-recency is where your perceptions of something or someone can be affected by first impression or more recent information. Stereotyping is where you get your ideas on others based on a fixed idea, that is usually inaccurate. Attribution of control is where you make a judgement based on the level of control someone has over their