I had a coworker one time that wouldn’t speak to me for over a month. This caused myself to wonder if he was mad about something I may have said to him. It seemed every time I tried to talk with him, he wasn’t interested in anything I had to say. I ask him one day if he is upset about something I had done. He began to tell me his wife had filed for divorce and he didn’t want anybody to know. I thought they were a wonder happily married couple from time my wife and I spent with them. Clearly my perceiving lenses failed me on this occurrence.
