As an RA, the balancing of front stage and back stage is vital to our survival and self-care. Our front stage is anywhere that we are in the present of our residents, whether that be in our module, around campus or when residents are in our room with us. Back stage is considered to be off campus with our friends, at home with our family, or in our rooms by ourselves. Differentiating between front stage and back stage is very important when it comes to impression management. On the front stage, an RAs actions are being constantly watched, whether it be by a resident, other students, other RAs, staff or faculty. An RA has different expectations and roles that they have to fall into in different situations. When an RA is with a resident, they have to be the strong ones that have the answer and know what to do. But, when an RA is at home or with their friends, they do not necessarily have to fall into that role. This does not mean that RAs are not genuine when they are with their residents, but RAs definitely feel a pressure to be cheerful around their residents, no matter how they feel on the inside. Finding time to retreat to “back stage” is vital to self-care as an RA — finding a place where you can be you and not feel pressure to put on a happy
As an RA, the balancing of front stage and back stage is vital to our survival and self-care. Our front stage is anywhere that we are in the present of our residents, whether that be in our module, around campus or when residents are in our room with us. Back stage is considered to be off campus with our friends, at home with our family, or in our rooms by ourselves. Differentiating between front stage and back stage is very important when it comes to impression management. On the front stage, an RAs actions are being constantly watched, whether it be by a resident, other students, other RAs, staff or faculty. An RA has different expectations and roles that they have to fall into in different situations. When an RA is with a resident, they have to be the strong ones that have the answer and know what to do. But, when an RA is at home or with their friends, they do not necessarily have to fall into that role. This does not mean that RAs are not genuine when they are with their residents, but RAs definitely feel a pressure to be cheerful around their residents, no matter how they feel on the inside. Finding time to retreat to “back stage” is vital to self-care as an RA — finding a place where you can be you and not feel pressure to put on a happy