The passage that I found more interesting and caught my attention on how to be a good listener was “Be a Detective”. This makes sense to me because you want to get to the point of there story. You want to understand why there going through that and what's really happening you want them to be able to talk to you and end up figuring there own problem by hearing themselves of what they're saying. It feels get when people let you figure out your own problem and it’s good for the other person because you don’t have to blame them if you made a wrong choice because they were just listening to you. Try to make them think about why this happen and what really caused all of this even if you have to go backtrack and think about it. For yourself try to
