Parents Should Not Spank Kids

I believe that parents should not spank there kids when they are doing something "wrong". The thing is to drive foolishness out. You have to remember this is discipline and it is not supposed to be cruel punishment. It is for them to learn something is wrong, its not for you. I don't think you should ever, ever, discipline out of anger. Even if you are extremely upset or pissed at what your child has done. You can be angry but hitting is not doing anything but hurting your child, in my eyes. When you get that respect you want from your child it says you did something right in parenting. If you jerk that child up, scaring them and giving them a whack with something on the back, butt or any part of the body you are intentionally smacking out of anger and emotion. It's not about beating …show more content…
They would tell me and my brothers what not to do or what we were doing wrong. My dad would in a deeper tone, tell us "Hey, that's not right or not nice". What kid would wanna be told they were not nice. I believe that is better for kids growing up in this generations because all you ever hear about in the news and on the television is about couples going through some kind of domestic violence and that's what they grew up on. Teaching the younger kids its okay to hit people whenever you feel like it, or whenever you get mad. I was taught my hands always are kept to myself. I truly think that when you get hit as a kid or screamed at you carry that trait on in your relationships down the road, and think my family did it to me so it should be okay to do, when in reality it is not at all. Parents need to start checking the way they discipline their kids and realize in this day and age it is not acceptable you keep your hands to yourself. If and when someone does touch you and you don't agree you go to someone to let them know about it. More people need to be aware, especially if they want the same respect in