Call me old fashioned, but I love when my husband opens the door for me or gives me his jacket when I’m cold. To me, this signals his affection for me and a desire for my well being. He does it because it honors me and makes me feel special. Flowers are also a big hit with me. Leon can be a real charmer, and I soak it up like a plant soaks up water on a hot day.
Recently, I had the opportunity of watching the movie “Old Fashioned”. It’s about a couple that falls in love. During their courtship, Clay, the main character decides to set strict boundaries. He decides to not allow himself to be alone with his girlfriend in his apartment for absolutely any reason. As you can imagine, this creates many types of reactions from his friends and family. …show more content…
-Mark 10:6-9. Really, sex is an expression of intimacy, not the means to intimacy. True intimacy is built on commitment, honesty, and love. Having sex is no guarantee that deep emotional intimacy will develop either. What about compatibility? Doesn't living together or sleeping over at your lover’s home help to determine compatibility? This view of choosing a partner emphasizes your partner’s performance, which will lead to your partner feeling threatened sometimes. There are more effective ways to determine compatibility with someone.
When you're considering a serious relationship or what I call dating with purpose, here are some topics that you can discuss related to sexual intimacy. Remember, God created sex for our enjoyment as part of the marriage relationship.
Why is it important to spend time with friends and family or go on double dates?
Shouldn't we just do what feels right? Why do we need to discuss sexual limits and boundaries?
Staying the night or sleeping over can lead to tempting situations. Why do we need to set a reasonable time to leave and go home at the end of the
Recently, I had the opportunity of watching the movie “Old Fashioned”. It’s about a couple that falls in love. During their courtship, Clay, the main character decides to set strict boundaries. He decides to not allow himself to be alone with his girlfriend in his apartment for absolutely any reason. As you can imagine, this creates many types of reactions from his friends and family. …show more content…
-Mark 10:6-9. Really, sex is an expression of intimacy, not the means to intimacy. True intimacy is built on commitment, honesty, and love. Having sex is no guarantee that deep emotional intimacy will develop either. What about compatibility? Doesn't living together or sleeping over at your lover’s home help to determine compatibility? This view of choosing a partner emphasizes your partner’s performance, which will lead to your partner feeling threatened sometimes. There are more effective ways to determine compatibility with someone.
When you're considering a serious relationship or what I call dating with purpose, here are some topics that you can discuss related to sexual intimacy. Remember, God created sex for our enjoyment as part of the marriage relationship.
Why is it important to spend time with friends and family or go on double dates?
Shouldn't we just do what feels right? Why do we need to discuss sexual limits and boundaries?
Staying the night or sleeping over can lead to tempting situations. Why do we need to set a reasonable time to leave and go home at the end of the