They also say he’s a hypocrite for not liking the thought of his wife cheating on him. To which I would say would you want your Wife/Husband to be unfaithful just because you were to save your men? I sure wouldn’t, but back to the whole “murdering innocent suiters” argument. These are people that have been trying to take his wife who he adores since the day he left and take all his wealth that he rightfully owned. What is he supposed to do, give them a hug? I personally think he could have probably handled this situation better but he’s a hero not a god give him a break, they got what was coming to them.
I have personally thought about Odysseus and his story for a while observing his actions and saw what he did perfectly and what he could have done better. Some people hold Odysseus to a standard that is frankly just unrealistic for any mortal. Yes, he made many mistakes and made a few decisions that he shouldn’t have made for his own gain, but you cannot deny all the heroic and amazing things he did on his journey that make him a