Obstacles In Married Life

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We all have met people in life who hoard small resentments and then one day they unexpectedly burst up. Don’t be that kind of a person. Vent your sour feelings and resentments, as they occur, in a respectful manner. You will be surprised to see how productive and respectful things have become. Not only this, but you will feel good from inside as well.
THINK SMALL
Grand romantic gestures looks good only in the movies and not all of us can afford all those things. Instead of giving a good gift on your partner's birthday or valentines it is better to giving your loving attention to your partner every day. Sometimes small things, like kissing your partner or hugging them or talking to them, makes them happy and these gestures are far more valuable
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Following are the myths which are associated with the married life and learn how to clear them off and live happily ever after.
THE “PERFECT” PARTNER
Nothing in this world is perfect. We always look for an ideal partner, who has everything we want. All those who think this need a reality check. Rather than looking for that perfect one, look for someone you are compatible with. You should find someone who sees life like you do and you have similar aspirations and values. Other things can be compromised. Looks, height, weight all these things change with time but your heart stays the way it is. Look for the inner beauty and then see how quickly you will fall in love.
“WE COMPLETE EACH OTHER”
We get to hear this from many couples. But this is the just myth. Everyone has an individual personality so do not let other people control your emotions and happiness. Do not render yourself vulnerable. Your own actions should make your life meaningful. Love your partner, listen to them but do not let them control you entirely.
NEVER GO TO BED
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When a relationship begins, both the partners behave nicely and things seem to sail smoothly. But as the time passes you get to experience the real thing. You need patience, flexibility, awareness to deal with tough situations. “True love” alone can’t help you have a successful relationship.
HAVING A BABY BRINGS A COUPLE CLOSER
Having a child surely bonds a couple together. But it comes with a lot of challenges. Bringing up a child properly is not that easy. The parents are under a lot of pressure. If a couple divides the tasks they avoid frustration because then you know that you and your partner are making a joint effort to raise the child properly. For some couples having a baby brings them even more stress. But for some, it brings them joy and happiness.
KEY TO SUCCESSFUL MARITAL LIFE IS ROMANCE AND LUCK
Couples who have been in a long term marriage attribute their success to companionship and commitment. People put in a lot of dedication and hard work to make their relations last longer. By having compatible values and interests and by sharing friendly bonds you can make yourself and your partners happy and satisfied. Love and romance alone are not

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