Not All Bad Events Have Bad Outcomes Essay

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“Not all bad events have bad outcomes.” I use to think and look at a life a lot different before my experience, my experience could have been taken so many different ways. It could’ve had such a different outcome and perspective of life then it did, but I decided to use it to my benefit and grow and get stronger from such events. Life was good, we just moved into a new house and to start a new life, from the old apartment we use to live in south of Pizza Hut. We were all excited about moving into a new house and have our own rooms. All I ever did back then was play video games I rarely hung out with friends and quite honestly even if I hang out with friends most of the time it involved bringing my game system to there house and we would play or vise versa. We were just kids being kids then, we started to notice a few things.. things that we odd and not good. Things that made me worry, cry, shake or all of the above. I can’t remember if my brothers remember much, but I know I do and it will always be stuck with me in the back of my head. My mom started becoming really lazy, and I mean really lazy to the point where she got “fired” she started …show more content…
Like everyone says “it can only get worse before it gets better” Me and my brothers currently live with my Dad and his new wife, and her three kids. Life hasn 't been better I could say, except one thing my mom is still very ill and refuses and Denies that fact of even doing such. I just wish she would get better because I believe that mom is that was loving once before is still there, actually scratch that I know it is. She isn 't a bad person even after all she 's done, she just let something consume her to the point where she has no control. I think and pray everyday for her to get better, and I know she will, it 's only a matter of time. Life can only be as good as you want to perceive it, it all begins with how you take it mentally and the view you take of the

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