Non Verbal Language Analysis

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Common tendencies in perception include making snap judgments, cling to first impressions, assume others are like us, and to be influenced by our expectations.(pg123, Interplay) A way to solve this is through a method of perception checking. Perception checking is when a listener describe a behavior, give two or more possible interpretations of the behavior, and ask for clarification. (pg129, Interplay) In the scene where Empathy is different from sympathy, empathy to see a situation from someone else perspective and sympathy is to feel pity for others downfalls.(pg131, Interplay) Sympathy was when Rachael cried over news of Ben's and Katie's break up. Empathy was shown and demonstrated in Katie's final monologue by Ben when he sincerely took what she said into consideration, agreed, understood what she was saying and felt how she felt. That is why he did not object to going to Chow Fun's and gave her a hug.
Chapter 5: Language Language has many meanings
Chapter 6: Nonverbal Communication Chapter 7: Listening

Chapter 8: Emotions

Chapter 9: Dynamics of Interpersonal Relationships

Chapter 10: Communication Climate

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Ben uses non-verbal emblems like waving his arms aggressively towards Katie in their argument after their trip to Italy. He also angrily thew the sheets off the bed as a sign of aggression. Ben love language is physical touch and quality time while Katie is words of affirmation. Throughout the movie Ben states that he craves for a connection and emphasizes sex as a way to show love. He even mention that whenever their feet would touch under the blankets that everything will be okay. He asks Katie to give him a sign or tell him that they are on the same side. Katie on the other hand would like it if shown her more appreciation for all the work she do around the house and dealing with the kids to keep their life in

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