There are a few mindset patterns to deal with in this situation and so a number of approaches could be attempted. In essence the client has a clear case of self-loathing and a need to feel loved by someone else to be happy in herself. There are many feelings of resentment towards her daughters who she believes have made bad choices, leading her to feel like she has to help them out. She believes they should not have turned out the way they have because she has given them everything they could ever have wanted growing up. She on the other hand believes that because of her upbringing she has a reason for being the way she is. Taking each mindset in turn:
Negative Mindset pattern 1: She believes she must find a partner/'Mr. Right' in order to
Negative Mindset pattern 1: She believes she must find a partner/'Mr. Right' in order to