What’s a girl to do? I have given him so many chances and he continues to be malicious towards me. I am so done. My daughter did nothing to him. I got so many beautiful things for my baby shower from family and friends.
• Pampers
• bottles
• crib
• car seat
• stroller
• high chair and the potty. It was one of those pottys that when she makes a siren goes off and it starts lighting up, then ends with that sound like the heavens have opened up. She would have loved that. Well anyway, I didn’t have my own place yet and my grandfather allowed me to put the gifts from the baby shower in his basement until I got my place and what does he do? He as in my brother goes and sells all my daughters stuff and I don’t even know until I move into my …show more content…
He climbs in the bulldozer and drives up Lisa’s walkway steps and porch. Who had to pay for that my grandparents? They continued to make up excuses for him, but he was coming to be a bit much for two people in their late 60’s so they tried a boarding school. Maybe that would straighten his butt out. That didn’t help either, he ended up serving two years in jail for robbery and by the time he got out he had missed the passing of our mother and grandmother. I guess that really tipped him over the edge because he ended up becoming one of the biggest drug dealers in Chicago. That road sent him to prison for life. It is said that he murdered someone. Sometimes I wonder, could I have done more. My grandparents were just too old to deal with him. Why couldn’t my siblings and I have a decent mother in a stable home that loved us and was devoted to her kids? She was truly the blame. Yes I know she didn’t make him by herself, but she couldn’t pick a good man, even if he wore a sign that said “Good Man”. I just think to myself was it the drugs, but he knew right from wrong. Out of all 7 of my siblings why is he the odd one? Before my mother died, she told me and my older brother to take care of him and I tried, but I couldn’t take him anymore so I washed my hands of him. My older brother still …show more content…
I’m sure my niece is growing up to be a smart and beautiful young lady because I know you would not have it any other way. I would like to ask you a question. Does your heart reject me? To hold grudges is a sin and is very unhealthy. I have wrote you several letters over the years pouring my heart out to you and telling you how sorry I was and that I have changed. You know it is important to forgive sis. Forgiveness doesn’t excuse the offensive things I’ve done to you over the years and I know some things are hard to let go and takeback but it’s a start. You may not believe me but I have changed and I wish you would allow me to show you the new me. I will continue to write you in hopes one day you might feel differently. Tell me niece I said hello. Til next
• Pampers
• bottles
• crib
• car seat
• stroller
• high chair and the potty. It was one of those pottys that when she makes a siren goes off and it starts lighting up, then ends with that sound like the heavens have opened up. She would have loved that. Well anyway, I didn’t have my own place yet and my grandfather allowed me to put the gifts from the baby shower in his basement until I got my place and what does he do? He as in my brother goes and sells all my daughters stuff and I don’t even know until I move into my …show more content…
He climbs in the bulldozer and drives up Lisa’s walkway steps and porch. Who had to pay for that my grandparents? They continued to make up excuses for him, but he was coming to be a bit much for two people in their late 60’s so they tried a boarding school. Maybe that would straighten his butt out. That didn’t help either, he ended up serving two years in jail for robbery and by the time he got out he had missed the passing of our mother and grandmother. I guess that really tipped him over the edge because he ended up becoming one of the biggest drug dealers in Chicago. That road sent him to prison for life. It is said that he murdered someone. Sometimes I wonder, could I have done more. My grandparents were just too old to deal with him. Why couldn’t my siblings and I have a decent mother in a stable home that loved us and was devoted to her kids? She was truly the blame. Yes I know she didn’t make him by herself, but she couldn’t pick a good man, even if he wore a sign that said “Good Man”. I just think to myself was it the drugs, but he knew right from wrong. Out of all 7 of my siblings why is he the odd one? Before my mother died, she told me and my older brother to take care of him and I tried, but I couldn’t take him anymore so I washed my hands of him. My older brother still …show more content…
I’m sure my niece is growing up to be a smart and beautiful young lady because I know you would not have it any other way. I would like to ask you a question. Does your heart reject me? To hold grudges is a sin and is very unhealthy. I have wrote you several letters over the years pouring my heart out to you and telling you how sorry I was and that I have changed. You know it is important to forgive sis. Forgiveness doesn’t excuse the offensive things I’ve done to you over the years and I know some things are hard to let go and takeback but it’s a start. You may not believe me but I have changed and I wish you would allow me to show you the new me. I will continue to write you in hopes one day you might feel differently. Tell me niece I said hello. Til next