Disliking my mom was easy. There is most definitely a story behind it that I typically don’t share. Nobody just goes through life saying, “Hey, your name is (insert name), I don’t like you.” No, that’s not how I was raised. People have common sense (for the most part), reasons, and thoughts. And being upset with my mother was immature of me to say the least. Up until the summer of 2015, I didn’t like my mom one bit. I could hardly stand being in the same room as her, my body just begging myself to leave. But before I go too far into explaining the things she did and why I disliked her, I would like to share with you my story.
On a Thursday in May, our second to last week of school before summer began, she broke the news. …show more content…
The story and message this man delivered was so powerful, I cried. I legitimately cried lying in bed watching, listening to every word this man said. His message changed the way I look at things today. You can find the video on YouTube. It’s called ‘Marc Mero 's Emotional Mother 's Day Story’.
After watching this video, I thought about my mom in a way I had never thought about her before. I realized that maybe what my mom did wasn’t as bad as I thought. She didn’t dislike her family; in fact, she loved us so dearly she just didn’t know how to do what was best for her without taking us along. Disliking her job here in Iowa, being a dentist’s assistant sounded like a life changing experience that she took advantage of. I had finally understood why she did what she did, and I understood the way I acted was ridiculous.
If something makes somebody truly happy, they should do it for themselves. They shouldn’t do it for anybody else then themselves, and that’s what my mom did. She did what she thought was best for her, and I have learned to respect her decision. God has a plan for everybody, good or bad, major or miniscule, there is always a reason. From this experience, there is something that I will always remember: “if God brings you to it, he will bring you through