When I started talking to Martin and having a conversation about the bronco’s game I was making eye contact but after a few moments I started looking at the tip of his ear. After a few seconds I new are conversation was being affected because he said “what are you looking at?” and I responded “nothing.” After that moment I then looked at his other ear and when I did that he looked at the direction I was looking at and for the second time he said “what are you looking at?” and again I responded with “nothing” After that Martin said “ill be back” and never came back. I knew Martin was also getting upset because I wasn’t making eye contact but what I think really made him made was when I looked at his other ear. I believe Martin thought I was not paying attention to him which is why he left and never came back. I felt bad that my friend thought I wasn’t paying attention to him and to what he had to say.
In conclusion, both of my friends Amy and Martin didn’t like the fact that I wasn’t making eye contact with them. They found it to be inappropriate because Amy thought I was weird and that I turned into a creep and Martin didn’t like it because it looked like I was not paying attention to him or to what he had to say. I do believe that eye contact is the key to a good conversation because people can feel a connection just by making eye contact with each other and in a way can it is also a sign that an individual is paying attention to