Kaherene Holmes Essay

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Katherene Holmes
“Living my life to fullest and cherishing this time I have left on this earth by doing things that bring me happiness!”

Since I have been on this earth, I have witnessed and experienced a lot of things in life. I have witnessed things such as abuse, and violence. I have also experienced things such as death, abandonment, fear, betrayal, and love. Life is an overall learning experience. On a daily basis, I constantly live and learn. Everyone has trials and tribulations in life; however; it is all about how he or she lets them affect their lives.
Before my life began, my mother was in a relationship with my brother’s father for eight years. My mom and brother were victims of domestic violence at the hand of
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My biological father abandoned me at an early age because he was not ready for fatherhood. My dad’s absence in my life led to my brother’s father taking the place of my biological father and raising me as his own child. Although he was the cause of my mother and brother’s suffering, he was nothing but an amazing father to me. My mother and him were not together but had an agreement that he could take care of my brother and I. His family accepted me and treated me as their own and I grew up thinking my brother’s dad was my biological father. I was introduced to my biological father when he came to my graduation from day care. I was five years old. His great aunt lived beside my grandmother, and I had seen him from time to time, but I was unaware that he was my biological …show more content…
I realized that I can dwell in the past or learn from it. I chose to learn from it, so I can make better life choices for myself. I was able to forgive to the people that caused unreasonable types of distress. I realized I was not going to let other people determine my joy. I would not change this experience for the world, because it made me the person I am today. I am far from perfect, but I am surely glad to be live. I am actually happy and doing things to benefit me. Living my life to fullest is the only way to ensure my happiness. I do not want to continue letting past experiences interfere

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