One ordinary night, I was faced with one of the hardest emotions to deal with jealousy. It all started when I was at a party with my girlfriend, Monse, we had just sat down from dancing. When I decide to go to the restroom. When I came back I saw another guy in my seat trying to flirt with my girlfriend. That brought disturbing thoughts to my head, which made me react aggressively and I walked up to him and told him to back …show more content…
He stood up and we looked at each other face to face. We both had a lot of fury in our eyes and looked like we were about to go at it. Until, my closest friend came up and pulled me away and told me it was not worth it to get in a fight with an idiot like him. So I did the mature thing and chose to forget that even happened but all night I had a sense of shame for not acting upon what he did but, I had a little sense of relief that I didn't have to worry about him completely ruining my night. Although this was not the last encounter that I have had with him. The next couple of days he made it his goal to bother me and sadly it worked. I would grow madder by the day until one day I was completely feed up and he went too far. He was touching my girlfriend while she did not want to be touch and she even was completely frightened when she told me. This just completely got me full of rage and I told him that if fighting with him would make him stop then a fight he is got himself into. I could not think straight since …show more content…
As they called my parents I could tell their disappointment in me. They showed up a couple minutes after and we went to the principal's office where he told me that was suspended and since it was one of the last days of school already. I would have to start next year in A.E.P and be there for 45 days. Although my time there was cut, it felt forever because I was separated from everyone and there was basically nothing to do. This effected all my classes and it had brought down my grades to where I would have to work really hard to even barely pass. Since I got in a fight it had a great big negative impact in life and only slowed me down in doing the things I wanted. After this I had realized that as my friend said the first time that is was not worth it and I slowly believed it.
That was the first time I had got in a fight and realized that I should never be driven by emotions that cloud my judgement. The lesson is that in times like these Is where you just have stop before you do anything dumb and just take a deep breath and clear your head. After that you will surely come up with a much better idea to deal with your