My Worst Communication During Conflict Conversation

Our class topic last week was very interesting, especially because our topic was conflict. I have to admit that my worst communication is during conflict discussions. That’s why whenever I know or feel that a conflict is coming I get frustrated and I don’t realize that I become the worst thinker during those conversations, where I expect the worst outcome. However, like you said last week, we always tend to think the worst when we are in a conflict conversation or when we think about the term conflict. But as you stated, conflict equals a piece of information that can become an opportunity to either person, if not for both. Therefore, I totally agree with what you had to say because we see conflict conversations in a negative way and for that reason those conversations turn out to have negative outcomes and sometimes harmful consequences. …show more content…
We commuted together every day, but there were things that she didn’t like and there were things I didn’t like however, we seemed to be afraid to talk about it and we just had the worst ways to communicate that with each other about our wants. Whenever we “talked” about it, it became the worst conversation and as a result of that we ended our six-years of friendship. We still talk, but rarely and it is absolutely not the same as it used to be, and to be honest I miss having her a close friend. So, learning that conflict not always means a lost is eye opening. The fact that conflict equals an opportunity will stay with me forever because it will remind me of the many opportunities I have lost and the future opportunities that I’m not willing to