My View On My Life Essay

1799 Words Dec 8th, 2016 8 Pages
I believe that these books have taught me a lot about my life and why I’ve made some of the decisions that have had an impact on me. The first book was very hard to read at first. I struggled quite a bit trying to comprehend it, but once I figured out Wegner’s style of writing; I started to understand better. The second book was a lot easier to read, I honestly enjoyed both books because they gave me a different view on life and how things work. My mother and father are both in my life, but my mother raised me. I talk to my dad and see my dad occasionally, but we never had the relationship that my mother and I have. Throughout Wegner’s book I’ve realized that I may not have that relationship with my father because I would not let it happen with my unconscious will. Though, he was in my life and loved me he was not always there. Many important things have happened to me and he has been nowhere to be found, for instance my birth, my baptism, my conformation, and all the sporting events. As these things were happening, I did not even realize he was not there, because it was not a surprise. I know my dad loves me, but I do not think he understands how he affected our relationship. As I was reading Wegner’s book I would think of different times in my life and I started to realize that I unconsciously resented my father. Wegner’s describes this as Automatism, doing something without conscious thought or intention. One example would be my homecoming event. I was nominated to…

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