Since I am taking the regular classes this quarter while she is still in the ESL, I have more homework and need more time and a quiet room to study. Nevertheless, she never put on her earphone when she is watching videos, also she has some bad behaviors which kind of annoying me. Because I don't want to have a worst relationship with her, it becomes harder for me to tell her that I don't appreciate the way she acts. It was not until a coupon of weeks ago I finally wrote a note to her. Ask her to put on her earphone and to turn down the volume in the morning while I am still sleeping. This is not my first time living in a dorm, but my first time having a not so good roommate. I learned that people from different family, regions, or countries might have different habits and life style, it is not an easy thing to find a great roommate that match you perfectly. However, now I understand that I need to express my feeling and communicate with people when I don't feel comfortable, because no one else could help me solve the problem if I refuse to face it. I have to be responsible for every choice I made. If I decided to tolerate the things she has done to me, then I have no right to complain and whining about
Since I am taking the regular classes this quarter while she is still in the ESL, I have more homework and need more time and a quiet room to study. Nevertheless, she never put on her earphone when she is watching videos, also she has some bad behaviors which kind of annoying me. Because I don't want to have a worst relationship with her, it becomes harder for me to tell her that I don't appreciate the way she acts. It was not until a coupon of weeks ago I finally wrote a note to her. Ask her to put on her earphone and to turn down the volume in the morning while I am still sleeping. This is not my first time living in a dorm, but my first time having a not so good roommate. I learned that people from different family, regions, or countries might have different habits and life style, it is not an easy thing to find a great roommate that match you perfectly. However, now I understand that I need to express my feeling and communicate with people when I don't feel comfortable, because no one else could help me solve the problem if I refuse to face it. I have to be responsible for every choice I made. If I decided to tolerate the things she has done to me, then I have no right to complain and whining about