My Personal Values: My Value Of Friendship

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The world is designed in such a way that every person should face challenges at least one time in his/her life. Some people make experiences over them, some of them are doing the same mistakes again, some just forget and some people never forget. I think I am the last one. I don’t have principles, likewise, I have values, which are much stronger and keep me alive. They are the key stones of my life. They are making my life more valuable and when one of them is hurt it affects all my mood, motivation and my passion for the life. One of the them, which was challenged, is my value about friendship.
Being introvert person makes it difficult to get new friends and socialize. For me, it is not easy to be friend with someone and it takes more time
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I was trying to adapt to the new environment and meeting with new people. My first attempt failed. The girls that I tried to become a friend were not my kind of people and it took time to understand that we cannot speak the same language, in other words, we do not have the same tastes. When I was talking about latest news about world such as crisis, poverty, human rights, they were easily got bored and wanted to switch more ‘’interesting’’ topics such as fashion trends, gossiping, boys and so on. I tried second time, which were completely new and more frankly, odd for me.
I became a friend with one girl with whom we were on the same volleyball team of our college. We were having a good time while listening the same songs, watching the same movies and doing our assignments together. In the middle of semester, everyone did have a friend or they were making squads.
Once, I realized that there was a girl in our class who was sitting alone all the time. Seems she did not have any friend at university. When the classes finished, friends were coming together to spend time after classes by having fun or working on the assignments that they had for the next class, however, she was the only one directly going home right after classes. I talked about my observations to my friend and we decided to have her as our friend, so that she did not need to feel
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After I became disappointed because of giving that much effort on the value of friendship, I decided to move on and have more time with myself.
I have always a deep interest toward art. For most of the people, art is just a painting or maybe a piece of sculpture, but for me, it is more than that. Art is in everywhere. The eyes of little child, the tear of starving kid, the wrinkles of an old woman or the way of eyesight which is longing for something, something that is far away, which is belong to a sailor. The process of loving someone or something is also a sample of artş Art is living in each of us. The difference is the way that we express it.
In order to create an awareness about the art among students, I established ADA (that’s the name of my university) Art Club. As a first activity of the club, we (with my team) organized Poetry Contest. The essential aim of the event was to express the art through different poems in different languages. We started to the preparations with searching for graphic designer in order to make a poster of the event and that was the time when I met my former best

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