Neither of my parents were particularly religious and did not raise me as such; however, when I was five years old my mother remarried to a Catholic man. I was baptized and started at a private Catholic school in California. Prior to starting school, I cannot recall a single toy of mine or television show that I had watched that was at all influential to how I “should be” or what I “should like” as a girl. In fact, I earnestly recall the …show more content…
Over the years, my partner has helped me as I gather a better understanding of myself, including my gender identity. As it would turn out, I think I was right all along. Anyone can express their gender in any way, and they can still identify in any way as well. In the end, we are all practically the same. Smacking labels on ourselves and on one another only sets us further apart. Regardless, I feel that I can now safely and assuredly say that I am a woman. I am twenty-one years old. I dress how I want, and I act how I want. I will date who I want, and I will identify how I want. Gender roles and expectations need not