My Parents Essay

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As teenagers in this world we assume we know what the best thing is for us and our future to come. We doubt our parents advice and opinions when they talk to us about our life and our future, we tend to not listen to them because we think they have no idea what they are talking about.

As I was growing up everyone told me to listen to my parents because my parents knew what they are talking about, but as stubborn as I am I thought they were full of nonsense. I thought my parents had no idea what I wanted, what was best for me and my future, but as I look back now I wish I would have listened because everyone was right, my parents did know what they were talking about. My parents are the type of parents who care about my grades in high school,
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Eventually, with time me and him talked a little more, we saw each other a little bit out of school and then he became my boyfriend with time. My parents had no idea about me and this boy because I knew they would think I was to young to have a boyfriend, so I kept me and him a secret. As time passed my parents started getting the hints that me and this boy has something going on. My mother accepted it but always told me to be careful, not to do anything dumb and most of all to not get pregnant because it would change my life forever. On the other hand my dad did not like the idea of me dating this boy, he said he did not want to see me anywhere near this boy and if he did I would be in trouble. My dad eventually realize he was going to have to accept the fact that me and this boy were dating and could not do anything about it, so he finally approved of him. My dad and my mom warned me though to not do anything that would change my life or make my life a little more difficult, but I did not listen. My junior year came around and me and this boy were still together, but everything was about to change. I was half way through my junior year and he was half way through his senior year when I found out I was pregnant. At that exact moment when I found out I was pregnant I knew I was going to disappoint my parents because they told me to not do anything that would change

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