As I do project 2, I have decided to interview my parents about their marriage. The reason I decided to interview them is because of my interests in my mother’s age when she married, how I matured, and knowing my familial roots.
As I live separately from my parents now, I sent kinds of questionnaires and asked them to answer it individually. I questioned them about before marriage and the beginning of their love.
My father, Naoki Ito, had one vision about marriage. He has views of an ideal couple through his acquaintances. One couple was very close, and another respected each other. A common point between them was trusting their partner, which his parents did not have. They had a different sense of values and a bad relationship, and could not talk to each other. My father did not want a relationship like his parents, so he …show more content…
She guesses he was nervous a bit at that time. When she met him, he wore a formal suit because they came from work, and she joked about the sunglasses he wore with the suit because the outfit and sunglasses were unbalanced. She sat next to him during the cherry-blossom viewing and shared sweets with him. She did not talk to him very much, and she was sorry that he could not drink alcohol because he needed to drive some people, including her, to the place where they saw cherry blossoms. That is why she thought he was kind. They promised to go to the Disney Land before saying good bye, but honestly, she was not interested in going.
After their trip to Disney Land, they went out for dinner. My mother mentioned she was already in a relationship with one man, however She did not like him and wanted to solve this problem. She thought she had to tell about it to my father. My father did not change his attitude after he heard of it, and he gave advice to her when she needed it. She said that she felt relieved for it felt natural to be with my
As I live separately from my parents now, I sent kinds of questionnaires and asked them to answer it individually. I questioned them about before marriage and the beginning of their love.
My father, Naoki Ito, had one vision about marriage. He has views of an ideal couple through his acquaintances. One couple was very close, and another respected each other. A common point between them was trusting their partner, which his parents did not have. They had a different sense of values and a bad relationship, and could not talk to each other. My father did not want a relationship like his parents, so he …show more content…
She guesses he was nervous a bit at that time. When she met him, he wore a formal suit because they came from work, and she joked about the sunglasses he wore with the suit because the outfit and sunglasses were unbalanced. She sat next to him during the cherry-blossom viewing and shared sweets with him. She did not talk to him very much, and she was sorry that he could not drink alcohol because he needed to drive some people, including her, to the place where they saw cherry blossoms. That is why she thought he was kind. They promised to go to the Disney Land before saying good bye, but honestly, she was not interested in going.
After their trip to Disney Land, they went out for dinner. My mother mentioned she was already in a relationship with one man, however She did not like him and wanted to solve this problem. She thought she had to tell about it to my father. My father did not change his attitude after he heard of it, and he gave advice to her when she needed it. She said that she felt relieved for it felt natural to be with my