They decide our identity and control it from the first hour or maybe the first day we arrive to life. H.Edward Deluzain states, in his article “ Behind the Name”, that “ in cultures with a keen sense of ancestry. Children get their names from the totems and family trees of their parents. In some cultures, names are taken from events which happen during the pregnancy of the mother or shortly after the birth of the child, and in others, names are divined through magic and incarnation” (1). Salma, whose mother bestowed her with this Arab name, means tender hands and feet; “Salma as fragrant as white jasmine flowers and as pure as honey in its glass jars” (34). This Arab name, as many other names, reflects the Arab culture anticipates from a woman; women must be pure, tender and honorable. Ironically, Salma doesn’t mirror, reflects, or holds the meaning of her name. She gets pregnant out of wedlock and stains her family’s forehead with
They decide our identity and control it from the first hour or maybe the first day we arrive to life. H.Edward Deluzain states, in his article “ Behind the Name”, that “ in cultures with a keen sense of ancestry. Children get their names from the totems and family trees of their parents. In some cultures, names are taken from events which happen during the pregnancy of the mother or shortly after the birth of the child, and in others, names are divined through magic and incarnation” (1). Salma, whose mother bestowed her with this Arab name, means tender hands and feet; “Salma as fragrant as white jasmine flowers and as pure as honey in its glass jars” (34). This Arab name, as many other names, reflects the Arab culture anticipates from a woman; women must be pure, tender and honorable. Ironically, Salma doesn’t mirror, reflects, or holds the meaning of her name. She gets pregnant out of wedlock and stains her family’s forehead with