My Mother And Mother

Improved Essays
I’m a 15 year old female, who’s was born in Lafayette Louisiana on March 21, 2000. I have lived in Lafayette my whole life i hardly know how it feels to live anywhere else. I wouldn’t say i have the life that everyone wants because my life isn’t even close to perfect. I’m just thankful that i have my mother and father in it. My mother and father aren’t together so i had to go back and forth when i was younger. As I think about the past my mom really struggled the most and she still is.

As i’m get older i’m realizing how my parents aren’t doing as much for me as they use to. I want to think that it is because I am almost old enough for a job and they want me to start providing for myself but my opinion is that they just don’t want to or they are struggling. I am very thankful for my sister I love her so much for being in my life and providing the most for me. She is only 19 and has her own house and car she also has a son I think he is her motivation to work hard. I live with her now my mom says it’s so I can stay out of trouble but everyone know i’m a quiet person I
…show more content…
When I was younger I would love to go to his house but when he got with his last baby moma I stop going so much and I was only five and I knew it was something about her that was off. He has been with her for going on 10 years and I still don’t have that connection with her that I had with my step mother before her. Me and her daughter was really close and her daughter told me that her mom said, “I need to stop being mean to that little girl because she’s part of the family now”, ohh my gosh really you said that after eight years, so you would roll your eyes at me on purpose? And not let me go in you and my father’s room on purpose? Also not let me take a bath in you and my father’s bath tub if someone was in the other one on purpose? I really didn’t understand why all of that was necessary for all these

Related Documents

  • Improved Essays

    I didn’t grow up having sibling relationships with my siblings aside from Presley. My relationship with my dad went to shit by the 2nd or 3rd year living with him as started drinking and doing drugs in High School. In tenth grade, I called my mom and started spending time with her again. My dad kicked me out when I turned 18 and I went to live with my mom who basically used me for rent because she couldn’t afford her apartment. I remember my Aunt Regina saying to me, “You know you’re going to be stuck, right?” And I was for four years.…

    • 1535 Words
    • 6 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    My relationship between Jr and I hope will grow for the better. I feel as I need to forgive him of the past not for him but for myself to heal into a better person and adult. Sadly, my mom is still in a vulnerable state and relies on me emotionally and sometimes financially to stabilize her. My baby sisters have followed my lead on creating their own life to help them break away from our evil past we grew up in. To summarize, my significant decision to give my mom the ultimatum to leave my step-dad or I was moving out, affected me by making me an adult at a young teen…

    • 833 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    However they followed my mother’s footsteps in making poor decisions. All five of my brothers dropped out of high school so I looked to my older sister for guidance. She tried her best to guide me and always told me to never be a follower and to always be a leader and do what’s best for me. She got pregnant her senior year and had to drop out of school. After the baby was eleven months she moved out of the house so I didn’t have her around for guidance anymore.…

    • 546 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Decent Essays

    Reasons such as how she would always be on my brothers side just because hes older than I. How she would always find the littlest things to complain to me about such as not placing my shoes correctly. Now that I'm older now I've learned how how i shouldn't talk back to my mom and how i should listen to her because of all she has done for me. I didn't realize how much she has provided for me and my brother until the summer of my Junior year, when i had the experience of working for the first time. Each week i would work for about 35-40 hours during the summer, which allowed me to make more than enough to support myself and not having the need to depend on my mother as much as i used…

    • 635 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Decent Essays
  • Decent Essays

    My Mom Changed My Life

    • 806 Words
    • 4 Pages

    Since when I was about 3 years old my mom and my dad got divorced, and I ended up moving to another town with my mom to go live there. We lived by ourselves which made her a single parent. For my mom being a single parent wasn't easy, it was a real struggle for her financially but even though it was difficult for her to support us she still managed to do it. She did it because she wanted the best for me, she wanted me to have a good life growing up, and she wanted me to be successful later in life by providing me with a good living environment in which she did. When I turned 5 years old my grandma moved in with my mom and I because my grandpa had passed away.…

    • 806 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Decent Essays
  • Superior Essays

    The statistic at that time was a teen who had her first child by the age of 15, would have her second child by age 17. Intervention through education was intended to reduce this outcome. The teens had a social worker and a nurse for their instructors. They were given weekly individual at-home and weekly group sessions with other pregnant teens for support. The program was in full force for five years, but then the state funding was not renewed.…

    • 1547 Words
    • 6 Pages
    Superior Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Hard Work Doesn T Work

    • 729 Words
    • 3 Pages

    At the age of 16 I was constantly stressed out about how things were going to get done and how my sisters were feeling since they hardly ever saw my mother, but always wanted to. Once the news came out about my parents getting a divorce I was even more stressed out. This stress eventually turned into anxiety due to sleepless nights filled of constant worry because I was so heavily concerned about my siblings and fathers feelings. We all became so close while my mom was working and we missed her dearly daily. When one works so much, they don’t realize the emotional effect it has on their bodies and minds.…

    • 729 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    We learned to do it all. So, growing up I have that same mentality, while I feel that it has given me some good qualities in my past and current relationships I know that I have some bad qualities too. Do I blame my mother for a lot of my disappointments in life, yes I did? As an adult, I look back and realize the blame can only be so much on her and that for me to grow as a person I needed to own up to my own failures and take responsibility for my decisions in my life. My mother never allowed me to date in high…

    • 773 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Growing Up For Me Essay

    • 1534 Words
    • 7 Pages

    I always had a closer relationship to my dad more than I did with my mom. When I was five, my parents took my two sisters and I to my grandparents house. They told us they would be back, but only my dad came back. From the time I was 5 my mom has missed all my birthday’s and all of our Christmases. She was never a good mom.…

    • 1534 Words
    • 7 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Then father asked me if I would like to have a little job. In my mind I was happy, for I could help my mother financially, but soon that happiness left my body, because who did I worked with? the one and only, the mistress. My first couple of weeks were of just anxiety, for my mother had found out that my father had a side chick, and was hiding her in the south side of town, and imagine if my mother found out I was working with her. My heart filled with grief, because my father knew I wouldn 't work with her if I had know she was a…

    • 1000 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays

Related Topics