From the very beginning, the use of pronoun “my” reduces her to an object murdered by the Duke in his unconscious desire to subdue her agency. His desire to silence her is not unnatural, specially taken in reference to the Victorian world where men were literally taught to overpower women. They were taught that they did not need to become strong because they were naturally and inherently strong and their manhood lay in subduing women. This subjugation held in it a desire to shape a woman according to a man’s will. She was an object created to please men by coming into a shape that men desired to see women in.
The Duke, in trying to establish his masculinity, unconsciously tries to lesson her. Is character is that of a man who is unwilling to let women live in their own ways. He is obsessed with his own ways and believes them to be superior. Duke’s character is arrogant and patriarchal is that sense. He believes that women should behave in a particular way defined by society and that if they don’t do that, they need to be tamed like animals are. Duke tries to tame Duchess like that If she