Dweks found that teachers had no idea that there were these two types of mindsets and there could be a number of different outcomes. Joshua Aronson, along with a couple of his colleagues all had the same results and conclusions. Their research and also Dweks both found positive and negative effects with stereotyped students. Growing up I was told over and over by my teachers that the limits of my abilities were endless and whatever goals I set for myself I could reach them. I guess you can say they weren’t expecting I would end up pregnant at the age of 15. Once the news got out I was than encourage to transfer out to another school where I would focus more on taking classes to prepare on learning the proper ways of caring for a child while receiving my diploma. I’m not saying the result of it was a negative thing but the talks about attending colleges or getting a good job were out the window. At this point in my life I have fallen into the negative effects of stereotype students becoming just another static adding to the high teen pregnancy rate in Tulare County. I believed that if I could just get my diploma; while getting on assistance for the rest of my life that I would be okay because I already knew what it felt like to be low-income. I now look back at this to try to wonder why or how I could let myself get to a point in my life to believe I was not able to …show more content…
With more new experience that is shown that we must teach our children and praise a different way so they can learn the correct coping skills they need when facing a hardship. At the age of 18 I was kicked out of the house and I had no place to go. Luckily I had a worker that was able to get me into a housing program for youth to live rent free while learning independent living skills. There I instantly become close to the director of the program and he took me under his wing because he believed in me. Shortly after I got involved in volunteering in the mental health field and was able to gain confidence. He constantly made sure I was staying out of trouble while during everything I needed to do to become self- sufficient. If it wasn’t for him I know I wouldn’t be at the place I am today. I was working on my credits at the adult school, volunteer full time and attending some general ed classes at COS; while also caring for my son and his sports he had at that time. I didn’t want to be another young Hispanic girl receiving assistance from the state for the rest anymore. He started to open my eyes to a whole different world that I was now no longer a fixed mind but learned that the limits again were endless. I was able to graduate the 2 year program, get my first apartment, car and diploma