My Goals In My Life Essay

The most important goal I want to achieve in my life is to get married and be a happy family. Ever since I was a little girl I always tried to imagine my wedding and my perfect life after marriage. There is this part of me that can 't wait for me to be settled and have someone close to me that cares about me. But there is another part that has this fear of giving up my independence and not being truly loved.
From a young age, my parents would say, “This is your temporary home, your real home is with your husband.” I never really understood what they meant until I started understanding my culture and religion. My religion says that a girl should be willing to get married. But my culture thinks that if a girl doesn’t want to get married there …show more content…
Knowing my personality and my nature I don 't think I would ever have found anyone for myself. I imagine myself being successful in my career but living with my parents. By not having someone depending on me I would be about to travel the world. I would be disappointed in myself because I realize how important marriage is to my parents. I can imagine myself seeing my siblings happy with their spouses and children and secretly hoping I had my own as well. I would love my independence. The love your family gives cannot be compared to the love of a spouse and I would never get that. The advantage of not getting married would mean I fulfill my other dream of having a professional career, traveling the world and being free.
I can imagine myself being very happy when I 'm married. I have never had a best friend that I could trust with everything, and to have a best friend living with me would give me comfort, security, and adventure. I can imagine having my own family: me my husband and our three children. I can imagine family vacations, holidays and making wonderful memories with each other. I find my life being happily married far more attractive than single and