Reflective Essay: The Positive Effects Of First Relationships

Firsts will affect for the rest of your life. The first time you experience something will always stick with you whether it’s the first time you kissed someone, when you lost your virginity, or when you first fell in love with someone. When people reminisce on their first they experience all sort of emotions. Looking back on your firsts brings the sensation of disembodiment because feelings are heightened during those times. In many cases when people experience their first relationships they come out of them will an expectation of all the relationships following will be similar. This happens because people get comfortable in their situation and when giving the opportunity to revert back to that they will. In many cases your first relationship will dictate all relationships you have after that one. In the aspect of loss, it does not actually feel real …show more content…
In the terms of experiencing loss for the first time the article talk about how the first time you lose someone it puts you in reality that you could lose anyone at any time. The article also talks about how some people who experience this will sometimes lose the ability to trust and feel safe within their environment because they fear losing someone else. I also went through this for some time after my grandfather passed but I learned to deal with the loss and eventually moved on from it. In the aspect of first relationships the article talks about how they can leave you comparing all other relationships after that to your first. I have caught myself reverting back to some of the same things I did in my first relationship in relationships after. In the aspect of success the article talks about how once you experience the feeling it changes you for the rest of your life. My first time feeling success did change me, it showed me that I could work hard for something and go get