Faith was shaken but was not lost. The death of my uncle and aunt was a stressor and it was unpredictable because it changed our family dynamics forever and we never …show more content…
This theory fits best with my family because during my adjustment to the event my family faced, the counselor was able to help me and my family come to terms with our lost because she was to get insights on how our family functioned as a whole and she being able to understand our family dynamic, she was able to suggest solutions on how to move past. Suggestions like visiting the gravesite, calling my mum when I felt down or even calling my aunts phone line, which is still functioning just to listen to her voice really helped. This helped because our family and relationship was really close so losing them was like losing a part of ourselves (wholeness). Its one thing to lose grandpa to an old age and it is another thing to lose at the age of 30 with two little