My mother has always been a hard worker. In high school she found out that she was pregnant with me, and that pushed her to work harder to pass classes so that she could graduate on time. She had me in high school and still managed to stay on track with her courses and completed …show more content…
She would have graduated high school without having a child. She would also not have had any anyone to blame for preventing her from attending post secondary school. She would have attended college so that she could have pursued her dream career. After successful completion of her courses she would have then found a job. That job would have worked with her so that she would never have to work too many hours or had too much work where she would have been exhausted upon her arrival home. Then she would have started a family after making sure she had a stable job. With a stable job, she would have also saved money for her children 's’ college fund. After having a family, she would have found balance for work, family, and herself.
On most days she would arrive home from work without being irritated and overly exhausted. She would greet her children with a warm smile and affection. With her family she would often have time set aside for them, making sure she would be able to spend quality time with the children when she wasn 't working. She would also be able to find time for herself so that she would not be overly stressed from work or tired of her family.
Although I have wished for many changes to be made in my mother, I wouldn’t actually want those changes to be made. Many times have I compared her to my ideal mother, but if she changed, then she’d no longer be herself. The things that I love and don’t love, make her my mother, and if it weren’t for those things, then she would not be the person she is and I would have been brought up