Reflective Essay: Change The Channel

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I started “Change the Channel” on August 25th and it ended on August 27th. I stopped texting some of my friends and family members and started calling them more while the rest of my friends and family I stared texting more. My experience was very interesting and some of the outcomes that occurred I didn’t really expect. I was so use to calling certain people and texting certain people that I feel like this experience affected my life in a good way. When my friends need help I am always the person they go to whether its homework, family issues, etc. and they would always text me. When I wasn’t responding to the text messages they kept texting me asking me was I there or if I am okay because I always respond instantly. I started calling them …show more content…
When I tried to call them they wouldn’t pick up because they thought I was ignoring them but I told them that I didn’t feel like texting right now. When I asked them what was wrong they would respond saying well “If you had responded to my text you would have found out.” I told my family that I really didn’t care and that whatever they had to tell me they could tell me on the phone. The family members I started texting more were not responding to any of my text. I would send simple messages and they would ignore them. Since they were ignoring I decided to blow up their phone with just random letters and they were getting mad because I knew they didn’t like to text. They ended up texting me in the end but it wasn’t for long because most of my family works and they don’t have time to sit and text me all …show more content…
When I stopped texting my friends I learned that I could say a lot more then when I was texting. I also learned that when I talked on the phone with my friends I could tell if they were mad or upset and I didn’t have to assume. My parents got mad at me when I was not respond to their phone call with a text or I would respond with their text with a phone call. My dad hates cell phones and doesn’t really text much but when I texted him he actually replied back saying what he needed say. I usually text my mom but when I tried calling her she would not pick up. She would send me text messages saying I missed your call what you need instead of calling me back. I realized the people I texted more I really didn’t have long conversations with and most of the time I had to make sure everything was right before I sent the text. The people I called more seemed to appreciate me calling and we would have a whole conversation on the phone. The “Change Your Channel” showed me how much I really don’t like texting because it’s so much easier to say what I had to say over the phone and it showed me how many people appreciate a phone call over a text

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