Personal Narrative: My Time In Counseling

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My time in counseling has come to an end. This road has been one of ups, downs, curves, and collisions. Throughout my time I have learned to help myself and how I am capable of helping myself. First, I want to say thank you for giving me the tools to know how to navigate life. Though our time was short, I learned so much. Secondly, you had asked me to do a critique of my experience working with you in counseling. So, here it is…
Listening: I think having others share their stories, secrets, hopes, and fears is one of the greatest gifts anyone can give. I sincerely believe when someone shares their stories with you it becomes part of your own. I’m really grateful to have the chance to share my story with you. I don’t generally share with people as much as I’ve told you. You listened so intently and asked questions when needed. I realized through this process that I received the gift of you listening. During our sessions, you seemed to always be fully invested in the conversation. When you would rephrase what I have said, I can tell that I was heard and understood.
Not Judging: Like I said before, I have told you so much that I would have never thought of telling someone else. You made me feel safe to say things to you because you never seemed to judge my experiences, thoughts, or feelings. In fact, many times you normalized how I
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I sincerely believe when someone shares their stories with you it becomes part of your own. I’m really grateful to have the chance to share my story with you. I don’t generally share with people as much as I’ve told you. You listened so intently and asked questions when needed. I realized through this process that I received the gift of you listening. During our sessions, you seemed to always be fully invested in the conversation. When you would rephrase what I have said, I can tell that I was heard and

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