My Ethnography Essay

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INGROUP Back in the day when I was attending high school, I was never really a part of a group. I had friends that were “jocks”, “geeks”, “goth”, and “goat ropers.” Goat ropers were the cowboys. I played sports, I was a smart student, I liked the color black, and I lived on a farm. I could never stay in one group and feel satisfied. I did not have one attribute that stuck out or that could label me. I was and still am an introvert. I was wondering if that had anything to do with it. I needed “me time” after a track meet or club meeting. I had to have it or I felt miserably tired.
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I became a mother at a very young age. I heard people talking me and others in my situation. Can NOT tell you how many times I would never do anything with my life, but I was an activities director assistant, scrub tech for an ophthalmologist, in college, and a mother of straight A students. The negative Nancies can kick rocks! I have also been stereotyped for the number of tattoos I have. Currently, I have fifteen and counting. I do not place them where they can be easily seen. Some of my friends and family has yet to see my work and some have no clue I have
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We had decided to go eat at a restaurant that is accessible from the lake. We went in, found a table, and ordered. A couple was seated next to us. They took notice of my tattoos. The lady said, “Look at her. She has tattoos everywhere. I bet she has pitbulls and does drugs” loud enough for our table and the surrounding tables to hear her. It doesn’t happen often, but I said something to her. I went over, said my peace, and walked away. When she realized my tattoos stood for important people and events in my life and I adopted my pitbulls because they were left for dead, she walked out crying and apologizing. After that I realized it was ignorance on her part, and stupidity on mine for saying anything to her. I should have left it

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