Personal Narrative: My Commander Personality

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As I reminisce over my life history, I can’t help but think of how my personality has remained the same while including positive change. I have always been an entertainer, to include being very spontaneous and energetic. Extremely full of enthusiasm life will never boring around me, this part of my personality has remained the same. Though my entertainer personality has stayed the same, my commander personality has changed drastically over time. I wasn’t always the commander type, it wasn’t until I became eighteen when I transformed into the bold strong-willed leader. I began to voice my opinions and took on leadership roles in any task that was given to me throughout my life. I always seem to find a way or making one with any situation life …show more content…
If it wasn’t for my mother, I feel like I would not have developed an entertainer personality. As a child growing up into an adult, my mother has always tried to do whatever she has to do to make sure a person left her presents happy. She is very bubbly and to watch such behavior every day while growing up I feel that same personality trickle down to me and that’s how I got my entertainer personality. Plus my entire family on my mother side has this personality. This is where I feel I picked this aspect up through nature, a trait from my family genes on my mother side. As far as my commander personality that’s more on the nurture side due to the fact that I had no choice but to become a leader. Because the entire world is getting insane and you have to be bold and strong to make it. See nature can be picked up by biological traits also known as genes. Nurture is more of an environmental development it’s our experiences that form us. According to… Soomo Learning’s webtext, Psychology, 4th Ed even differences initiated by our nature may be amplified by our nurture. We are not formed by either nature or nurture, but by the interaction between them. Biological, psychological, and social-cultural forces

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