My Decision For My Brother Devdas Essay

892 Words Apr 14th, 2016 4 Pages
The thoughts that I have about this situation is that i think this is a messy situation that needs to be handled the right way without there being any conflict. I have a lot on my plate right now with college and my dysfunctional family and I honestly feel like avoiding situation without even talking to my mother, brother, and nephew Devdas. I feel that if I could collaborate with them, then maybe the situation will finally be solved and the family should be happy again. My attributions about my mother are that she is a good parent but I feel like she can be a control freak sometimes and a person that likes to have conflict with someone. For example, if I continue to support my nephew Devdas, then she and my father will rethink their financial support for my education. My attributions about Devdas are that deep down inside I know that he’s a good kid because at one point we were really close. Now that he’s in his teenage years, I feel like he needs to show some respect to not only me but my mother as well. Devdas also needs to change his attitude because having a bad attitude won’t get you far in life. The attributions about my mother and nephew are accurate because they both like to have conflict and I also feel like they have similar anger issues as well.

If I were in my mother’s shoes, I believe what she is thinking is that maybe her controlling behavior sometimes causes friction because it may cause friction not only for me, but the rest of the family to not be around.…

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