My Big Brother Essay

Eldest My family has the best connection and the weirdest at the same time. My family isn’t considered as a big family according to Arab families. My father and my mother are the best parents I have ever seen. I am the eldest brother in my family. I have more than one role to play in my beloved family. My younger brother is the hiper one who loves hanging out with his friends. He is mostly my biggest responsibility. Finally, my little two sisters. They are the most adorable thing in the whole world. The role that am playing in my family is pretty solid but with some complications. When someone wants to take a new step in life we ask for each other opinion. Usually the younger goes to the elder to asking for an advice. Even me as the eldest …show more content…
I always thank God for the family that am part of. I love taking care of them. It is not an easy thing to do, but I love being their big brother. Sometimes I take care of my mother and father, even though they are not very old. My mother loves talking to me so much, complaining about her work or problem she’s facing. It is blessing seeing my mother comfortably talking with me and complaining without constraint. My brother is the one who is causing the problems to me. He is an outgoing person. Now he grew up a little bit, so he is doing better now. But he is still not fully grown up. I have to look after him every now and then, I am always looking forward to meet his friends and know them. In my opinion, meeting his friends is number one on the list of my responsibilities towards my brother. Friends are the most effective element, it could drown a person in the deep dark ocean, or sometimes good friends leads to the top of glorious. Girls are usually the cutest thing in the house. “A sister is a gift to the heart, a friend to the spirit, a golden thread the meaning of life.” - Isadora James. So my responsibility towards them is to treat them as princesses. Try as much as I can to avoid any problem that they might face. If they face a problem, I become their strong back to face anything without fear. The complicated part of all this that I am doing …show more content…
My mother’s family don’t talk so much about their history, so that is why my mother does not talk much about her family’s history. After 40 years she found out couple months ago that she has uncle living in
Netherlands. I like to dig deep into the history of my family. More often the one who answers all my questions with so much details is my grandfather. Passing all these history from my father and grandfather also sometime my eldest uncle to me, I feel like carrying weight on my shoulders that I have the responsibility to pass it to the next generation of our family. With all these technologies we have, it makes it easier to note down everything worth noting. I love to write the details of my life and the important things that I learn about about my family. “Family is not an important thing, it’s everything.” - Michael J. Fox. Family alway needs to take care of each other and hold each other backs. The relationship between the parents and their eldest son has to be very special. No matter what always family comes first. Look after each other no matter where destiny pull the family apart. Try to look after your brother and sister to check how they are doing and know their friends. Keeping in touch and asking about each other shows how much family loves each other, even if we did now say it out loud. History of any family is an important element that tells who you are, and what where did you came from.