Theme Of Marriage In Pride And Prejudice And Middlemarch

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Mr. Darcy and Elizabeth Bennet
Although Mr. Darcy and Elizabeth Bennet were not interested in each other at the beginning of the story, the courtship between Mr. Darcy and Elizabeth Bennet in Pride and Prejudice is similar to the courtship between Fred Vincy and Mary Garth in Middlemarch because it required the characters to evolve before they could be together. Mr. Darcy, specifically, had to change and prove his worthiness to Elizabeth Bennet the same way Fred Vincy had to prove his worthiness to Mary Garth.
Mr. Darcy left a negative first impression on Elizabeth during the ball when she overheard him remark to Mr. Bingley that he did not want to dance with her or any of the women at the ball for that matter (Austen Chapter 3). Elizabeth’s
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As noted above, the marriages between Charlotte Lucas and Mr. Collins and Celia Brooke and Sir James Chettam are marriages of convenience. In contrast, the marriages between Fred Vincy and Mary Garth, Mr. Darcy and Elizabeth Bennet, Charles Bingley and Jane Bennet, and Will Ladislaw and Dorothea Brooke are all based on love and financial stability, with the exception of Will Ladislaw and Dorothea Brooke because Dorothea loses her inheritance from Casaubon. In addition to these marriages, Pride and Prejudice and Middlemarch showcased a marriages based on superficial reasons and …show more content…
Wickham were not necessarily unhappy like Rosamond Vincy and Lydgate were in Middlemarch, there affections for each other did eventually fade into indifference. Because Lydia and Mr. Wickham were both rather naive and irresponsible and did not change after they got married, they did not seem to necessarily be miserable in their marriage. Lydia seemed to be satisfied for simply having the reputation of being a married woman. Although Mr. Wickham got his initial debts payed off by Mr. Darcy, he continued to struggle financially after marrying Lydia, so the marriage was more of a noose for Mr. Wickham. The marriage between Mr. Wickham and Lydia highlights the dangers of a marriage that happens because of passion, impulse, and superficial

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