Moving To American Culture

Improved Essays
Though it may be the simplest question in the world for others, being asked where I’m from is an inquiry I’ve always found hard to answer. At least if I was asked where I was born, I could say Kathmandu, Nepal. Having grown up as an American citizen in Asia, I have never been able to answer the dreaded “where are you from?” Though many people equate a life overseas to wealth, my parents moved to Asia under idealistic obligation, not business opportunity. We lived on the stipend of a volunteer, not the salary of a contract employee. My parents thought it necessary to live at the level of the people they wanted to help. I didn’t find out until moving to the U.S. that we had been living in “poverty” by middle-class Americans’ standards.
When I was four years old, we moved from our small home in rural Nepal
…show more content…
It became clear to my parents that we no other option but to return to the U.S. to be with him and make sure he was properly looked after. In America, being enrolled in a school for the first time in my life, I soon found out what culture shock was really like. It was throughout this time of culture shock that I would look to my music for comfort. After long days of feeling like a foreigner, I would go straight to the piano and begin pounding out Mongolian melodies. These compositions I which I would make up as I went along would convey feelings of disillusionment and homesickness. Though it was a difficult time, I made rapid advancements in my musical talents. I want to take these talents as far as they will go in college. Also, I found it very easy to relate to newcomers to the school district (especially those from foreign countries). I make it my goal to help welcome and integrate them into the culture. I currently tutor non-native English speakers and hope to continue in educational fields when I leave high

Related Documents

  • Improved Essays

    Probably the most significant myth in American culture is that the west lives on in the American imagination. Clint Eastwood has ensured that the American people do not forget how the West was occupied in his western films. In most western movies we see a lonely man moving west, perhaps running away from the law, stopping at the only saloon in a very small town that perhaps has a barber shop, a bank, and a hotel where the prostitutes carry on with their business and on occasion, a gun fight out in the streets. During the last half of the 1800s, this may have been the case with the white settler. This was the American frontiersman who was responsible for developing the west.…

    • 774 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    I believe that there is a long road filled with struggles, determination, and sorrow in everyone’s lives. No one can be successful by sitting on the coach and doing nothing. To become successful you have to earn it with patience and strive. My parents are from a small country in West Africa, Togo, and they have become successful. They both had great paying jobs in Togo, but they dropped the jobs for amount of the opportunities America had.…

    • 311 Words
    • 2 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    The school resides in a rural section of the district and holds a very small-town atmosphere. It is common for the teachers to know their students outside of the classroom and can often relate them to siblings, parents, and or other family members. Over the past few years the school that use to have a relatively conservative culture has shifted to more of a liberal culture. More students come from families with LGTB parents and the student body’s sexual orientation is more diverse. Although the school continues to maintain European-American background with over 94% of its student body being of European ancestry, shifting attendance boundaries, economic decline, and an increasingly transient population have seen a dramatic increase in the number…

    • 132 Words
    • 1 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    My understanding of freedom has changed and deepened since the first days’ classes when taking notes on my individual freedom and societal freedom. Historical changes over time and specific events and developments such as the Colonial and Native American early period have fought, articulated, and transformed the freedom many have come to take as granted. Close to the start when Christopher Columbus "discovered" America in 1776, in reality his exploration lead to the conquest and colonization to land already home to millions of people. This did however begin a pivotal moment in history that affected the Old and New World, with changes that are still current today. Along with the conquest of land the differing views of the Indians and Europeans opened different contradictory interpretations about freedom especially within religion, land use, and government.…

    • 911 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    My whole life I have struggled with answering the question “where are you from?” As a little girl I was always tongue-tied. I didn’t know my family’s history, I never had the ability to establish myself in one place because my father’s job required constant adjustments to my surroundings. However, my sophomore year I took my first college level American History course and it began opening doors I didn’t know existed. I soon realized that I may not know exactly where I come from, I may not belong to a specific state or region, but I am a part of the big picture –The United States of America.…

    • 156 Words
    • 1 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Going to a new school is hard for any child; unfamiliar places can be intimidating, new people can be unapproachable and the more advanced classes may even seem impossible. It is a very big social change that forces children to get out of their comfort zone and let new people into their personal bubble, because after all no one wants to be completely alone in this scary, dark world: everybody wants to belong. Fitting in can be more difficult if the child does not speak the same language as the people around them. Making friends and communicating becomes almost impossible until the child learns the language that they have been submerged into.…

    • 1032 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Superior Essays

    Reflection For this project, I interviewed my mom; a middle-aged woman who claims that she will always be 25 years old. I was interested in friendships and how they develop as one ages. My mother came to America from Jordan when she was a young newlywed. Moving to America was frightening considering it was a whole new country with many differences compared to Jordan. However, it allowed her to experience friendship in a variety of ways.…

    • 1395 Words
    • 6 Pages
    Superior Essays
  • Improved Essays

    "Where are you from?" People always ask this question when they are making friends. However, this is an embarrassing question for the immigrants because they come from their own countries physically, but they are Americans on the inside. They are struggling to either be Americanized or keep their own cultures. Then, it brings a puzzle to the immigrant parents: should they Americanize their children?…

    • 1115 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Many people move to the United States from other countries to live a better life and experience different things. Marites Pakib was born and raised in Cebu, Philippines. She was the youngest of 8 and they really were not wealthy, but her parents made enough to get by. When she was in school there, her and her family did not get government assistance. In the U.S, families who do not make as much money get government assistance as far as food stamps and disability checks.…

    • 1221 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Moving To America

    • 859 Words
    • 4 Pages

    I am from another country, As a child I spoke two different languages but not fluently. Arabic, my second language gave me difficulty as a child as for that, I spoke English more for that reason and another reason was that I was in America at the time. In Egypt I spoke more English and for that I was treated as a foreigner and was called differently as well as the way I was treated. I was called in American in Egypt a lot because I traveled from America to Egypt and when I went back to America I was called an Egyptian. In Egypt I was asked a lot of questions and struggled a lot with the language as such I had to ask what the words meant to understand what they we’re saying.…

    • 859 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Decent Essays

    I was born and raised in Ethiopia, Africa. The saying a village rases a child is very true in my situation. My whole block was my family back in Ethiopia. They would make sure I been fed and helped me with anything I nedded. My parents were not afriad of me just wondering the city or staying out late by myself even at the young age of 8.…

    • 335 Words
    • 2 Pages
    Decent Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Have you lived (for three years or more) in communities which are medically underserved, or where the majority of the population is economically and/or educationally disadvantaged? My family immigrated to the United States when I was five years old. We are originally from a rural town in India where people do not have access to adequate healthcare services. Poverty continues to prevail in these communities, and children often do not have the financial resources to pursue higher education.…

    • 509 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    On the way to the airport my mom warned us about what we might see, I didn’t entirely comprehend what she meant but I knew I was going to experience a lifestyle unlike my own. While I can’t speak for my siblings, the thought of something brand new excited me, rather than scaring me. I knew we were better off than my family in Honduras, otherwise my mother would have never moved so far away from home, but at this very moment I didn’t understand the extent of her…

    • 1123 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    There are so many different cultures in the world from Japanese cultures, to Chinese cultures, to even our very own American cultures. I will talk about American culture, even though there are many sub-cultures in the American culture I will try to narrow it down. American cultures for us is the normal things we do; we tend to think that everyone does the same things that we do in our everyday life. For example, from driving on the right side of the road to even eating with forks and knives. Everyone’s culture is so different, and we usually sit and judge others cultures without knowing about them.…

    • 954 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    A Chance to expand an Innovative mindset, that is what the Illinois Institute of Technology means to me. I believe IIT has the resources necessary to sharpen and develop my mind and bring forth new technology, ideas, and improve our quality of life. Going behind test scores and diplomas, making real change in the world. By telling my story and who I am. Through Illinois institute of Technology i aim to positively have an impact in this ever changing world.…

    • 715 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays